If selfish means that I take the time for me.
Time spent to...
Grow
Learn
Know myself
Explore my interests
Understand my strengths and my weaknesses
Improve
Create
Dream
Step outside my comfort zone
Have a life outside of my roles of mom and wife
Pursue my passions
Live more fully
Love myself, so I can love others more fully
Be me - a more authetic and whole me.
So be it!