If selfish means that I take the time for me.
Time spent to...
Explore my interests
Understand my strengths and my weaknesses
Step outside my comfort zone
Have a life outside of my roles of mom and wife
Pursue my passions
Live more fully
Love myself, so I can love others more fully
Be me - a more authetic and whole me.
Then, YES, I am happily, joyfully, authentically SELFISH!
So be it!